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You'll also want to find an attorney and get moving on a divorce as soon as possible. I've had friends whose husbands did this to them and it's crazy what these type fo guys think they can do. Some will call the electric company to turn off the power, some will turn off the phone service, the TVs, internet, cable... Or they'll just stop paying and not tell you, diverting all the bills to thier own new address so you dont' even KNOW what all you're missing till it's ALMOST too late (usually it's just "almost"... what I mean is that you find out on the day they're turning it off and you have like 2 hours to rush around & call everyone to figure out how the heck to fix it IF you can... and that stuff usually happens like at 2 pm on a friday after all the judges have taken off for the week...) One friend was forced to go to a local church to get food for the kids to last the weekend till she could get in touch with a social service agency and a lawyer. And it's not ONLY young couples wehre this happens. I had a friend who owned a business with her husband. He was the main owner and she was the 49% owner with all the duties of bookkeeping, paying the bills, running the office while he did all the sales. He actually cut her out of the business accounts, as if he was going to be able to figure it out & maintain it without her... he was just doing it to mess with her, but what eh didn't know was that there were nearly always bills, deadlines, payments due... it wasn't like you could close down for a week & come back without penalties & nasty little surprises waiting. Be prepared. If your husand is trying to pull dirty tricks, some of this stuff might be waiting for you. A lawyer on yoru side will help. Good luck. |