mistake#2
(Platinum)
06/02/08 11:58 PM
24.94.123.111
Re: What the heck???

[quote]Original poster is crying for more $.

**I think she was stating that he isn't paying the court ordered support, not asking for even more...

$he has the kids, sounds like his relationship with the kids is being strained (one has to wonder why?),

**I don't think she stated anything beyond that he is behind in support and makes good money so she doesn't understand why...

$he doesn't mention herself working,

**No, she didn't mention herself working but probably assumed that everyone else would assume that she's supporting herself and fulfilling her obligation to her child, but we'd have to ask specifically if she's working to know for sure...

but $he's received CS & alimony,

**She didn't state anything about alimony, did I miss something there?

and is married, and living off a new man, pity he forgot to put that clause in the MSA to end alimony upon remarriage or cohabitation. (Pay attention to that men, if $she cheats and shacks up with him it can save you alimony!).

**She stated that HE WAS REMARRIED...unless it's in a post that I missed, she didn't state that she was re-married or cohabitating...nor do I remember seeing that she shacked up with some guy after cheating on her ex...again did I miss something there?

He's unemployed and reported it and working as much as he can while looking for a job.

**The poster said that he made something like $135,000 per year yet wasn't paying his child support obligation? Not that he was unemployed...

$he thinks he's gotten away OK, so $he's angry and wants the ezmoney $he's thinks $he's entitled to, and to hurt him in any way too.

If she is working and contributing to support their kids and if he's really making 100K+ and not supporting his kids he'll be foolishly supporting attorneys instead, but it looks to me like another case of it's still not enough. [/quote]

**It looks to me like it's more of a case of the NCP not wanting to pay for a child that they should be responsible for...and the CP is frustrated that NCP isn't responsible enough to put the children first so she's venting here and wondering if there is more that can be done.

Not every case is a NCP getting screwed out of time with the kids or nickel and dimed and used as an ATM...sometimes it's really about fulfilling a legal obligation to support the children by both parents that both parents were responsible for bringing into this world.



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