Thanks. It is nice to know my situation is not unique.

Wow, I thought my ex was financially irresponsible. Your ex makes him look like an amateur.

So many people have said the same thing you did about taking in their ex. Honestly, I never thought I could be civil to him. I couldn't face my children though if they found out he asked for my help and I turned him away.

However, 3 days (72 hours) has now turned into 3 weeks. He goes to court tomorrow for his restraining order. I think he is hoping his wife will take him back-which seems unlikely. He has nowhere else to go and he is wearing out his welcome with us.