I'd say you should put it on the back burner. It takes time to figure out what more he needs to contribute. Tell them Rome was not built in a day or something to that effect. Less than 2 dollars a day..............Damn. Don't seem like much at that point. He needs to disclose his current income. She needs to understand children do mean sacrifice. Sacrifice by both families.

A hard spot for both families to be going thru. Only you know what is right for you.