thank you for responding....There is no way that I can work. My hubby's second job pays for our health insurance and I can never make waitressing what my husband makes between his two jobs. Two of the triplets are neutropenic (their bodies cannot fight off infections), 3 hospitalizations in the last 6 mnths, there is no way they can go to daycare, they can't even enjoy parks,etc. will I be forced to somehow work, my husband gets one day off a week