"As far as him choosing to see N only for the 8 weeks, that is exactly what it was...a choice between spending time with his son and $$. I've known from day one that the choice would always go to $$, not that he's a bad father but he is very money motivated and has a poor work ethic. Put the two of those together and you have a poor lazy father who will take the easy road every time. Some may think badly of me for doing it, but I used that to my advantage when I chose to move out of state. I don't feel bad as he voluntarily chose to move out of state himself for a few years when our son was little and tried using him as a pawn for many years 'til he grew up himself and took at least some responsibility."

You chose this direction and you will find I am right on the Michigan perspective on this. It will happen just like I’ve told you. Good luck but you have your answer.