Hi, I need ideas. My husband and I have been separated for 4 yrs and our son is enrolling in a private school that is very expensive and he agreed to help pay for the lessons. It is for aviation lessons and he called my son and told him that he has to have copies of the receipts cause someone is asking for them since he is sending so much extra money directly to my son as well as paying the court ordered child support and he used the phrase...tell your mother that I am not trying to pull anything funny but I have to have the receipts cause I have to show them to someone since I am sending so much money. My question is what or who would need to know this outside of the three of us...and what ramifications or sneaky things could he pull by using the receipts? I was going to send them to him just because I wanted him to have proof that our son is in the school and because he has to send the money directly to our son but... he has me wondering what he is up to by the wording on the message to our son...any ideas? This would in no way give him legal grounds to demand he file his taxes and use our sons' info on his taxes is it? He is not supporting him totally or even by half even if he were to pay for all the lessons...any help or ideas would be appreciated...