I appreciate the time you took to write me back. I called him today and asked him about this situation and he just said that he is working on the divorce and that he can't tell me why he is asking for the information but he needs it. He actually offered to pay the entire tuition if I agree to just sign the divorce papers and not fight the divorce...I am the one that asked him to get the divorce he promised me four years ago because I am not in a financial position to do it myself and legal aid will only help recent abuse victims and not me in the state I am in. I am curious how he is financially because we lived very modestly and without much...he says he is working a temporary job but he will pay for this (which over the course of the lessons could top fifteen thousand or more)...I know something is up now...he cleaned out our bank account when he left and has NEVER done more than pay the support and sometimes he is behind in that. I don't believe in alien abductions so I am thinking I still don't see the big picture. Thanks for the answers though. I will continue to research this.