Her lawyers are trying to say that I should be responsible for hers as well.

Second question. We both have bcbs insurance, however mine is cheaper per month, and what I believe compariable. Right now due to a mix up, we are both paying for health insurance for the family to both our employeers. So I pay for a family plan for all three of us, and she pays a family plan for all three of us. Mine has been in affect longer, but she wants to keep hers so she controls it. How would that work in decided who pays the insurance?