Separated Februrary 24 and divorced by April 25 this year. My ex and I are fighting over what is covered by child support. He says he has a list that he found on the internet (I have not found this list yet) and he will not give me a copy of his (I don't think he really has one). He told my 17 y/o daughter last year when we were still together that she could go to Spain with the Spanish class and that he would pay for it and that she could go with a Mission to Honduras like her sister did and he would pay for that also. We booked both trips while married but did not completely pay for them, now that we are divorced he is saying that he is not paying for either one because he pays me child support that covers this. I believe child support is for necessities, i.e., expenses incurred from day to day living, not for trips that together will total around $6,000 by the time we are done with them. I believe that when planning things like this it is what both parents think they can afford to do and split the cost. Does anyone have this "list"? Is there a "list"? Is there a good website out there I can go to that will talk about this and help me have something concrete to go on? Please!!!!!! Help me with this!!! I am tired of fighting about it.