Thanks for everyones input! I appreciate the feedback. No, she the ex-to-be does not need to move as she is an RN and can find work just about anywhere!
She has known this new for about 3 months and has decided that she is going to marry him. He has no kids and i dont know anything about him.
Our living situation is strange b/c we still live together, so i see my children on a regular basis. One of her main arguments is that i only see them on weekends. Well i work a job 9-6 m-f! That to me is just ridiculous! Any other thoughts and input would be greatly appreciated!