I refer to the father of my child as a sperm donar the only reason why he remotely was trying to get custody or joint custody is because 1- his mother is pushing him to do so, 2- so he doesnt have to pay child support. The guy that i am dating yes we are planning on getting married in the future but we want to live together first before making that commitment. He adores my daughter and has done more for her then her father. so its not like i am moving in with a fling. I would not be dating somebody and allowing them to be in my childs life if it was not going to be long term.

and she will see her father on a regular basis whether i live here or more it just means that i have to drive an hour to meet him halfway when he gets her and brings her back. I cannot live at my mothers forever andi cannot afford to live on my own with a child esp with no support like it has been