[quote]well i already covered setting the precedice topic, and since i did not come up with the agreement, the attorney's did, i am not responsible for that according to my attorney. a judge did not sign off on it, it can't be used to determine final visitation or custody. that is why it says without prejudgice on it. yes he is a true addict to the core, manipulative, passive aggressive, and narcisitic. but i think once i feel like i can get myself under control and get thru the divorce i will be able to set some healthy boundaries with from here on out. yes i have everything documented since we seperated and he is really digging his own hole, i just have to stay patient and strong....thanks for your advise.. [/quote]

Your attorney represents you. It's not something that the attorney pulled out of thin air and decided to do without your consent.

You had a choice to sign the document or not, you chose to sign the document, you are setting a status quo. BTW, all his attorney has to do is present the signed document to the judge for the judge to sign off on it, even if it says temporary. You are going to have a hard time changing what you agreed to, especially if he manages to follow the agreement.

Document everything and be prepared for the worst.