Experience tells me that you will most likely leave a lot of things out. The important thing, in my opinion, is that both parents have equal time w/the children. "Sole" custody in my opinion is bull$hit. If both parents have equal access to the children it will most likely work out in the long run. But if someone decides to play the smarty game and want Child $upport, tax benefits, alimony, food stamps and the freebies, that's when the problems start. What I learned is that the courts don't give a fcuk about what's in the "best interest of the children." Good luck