I should have requested that the ex take some classes and then be monitored or observed with the kids before allowing him to have them on his own. Its something I felt always needed anyways but I dont know. Maybe I was just soo burned out when the time finally came that I just wanted it over with and it didnt get put in.

If you truely feel the ex needs supplemental classes or something along that lines where it concerns the kids...get it in the decree. Its a waste of time to try and get it afterwards.

Also, I thought about the overnights thing but its soo well known that its not really enforceable anyways. It would have made my ex more determined to break it had I put it in there.