Hi everyone, this is my first hour on this forum!! I have been searching the internet for information on cusody and visitation and I need some help please. I'll try to be quick.

My STBX is insisting on joint custody with 2 weeks on and 2 weekds off with our 5 year old son! Is he kidding?? I have been the primary caregiving for 5 years now and he has never spent one whole day together with DS alone! He works crazy hours (he's at work now, Sun 9:45pm) and when his is home, he abdicates all responsibilities to me!

He insists that this is the new trend in child custody. I have never heard of this and it makes my stomach turn. What kind of custody do others have. Would anyone be willing to share their thoughts?

Thank you so much, Duck