The difference is that this is not a huge career opportunity. She can, with time find the same type of opportunity in this area. She is going to intern at a restaurant. There are plenty of great restaurants in the San Francisco Bay Area that we now reside in. I don't think she has even explored this. My guess is that after she finished school, the school provided restaurants to contact. She chose one that was more than 4 to 5 hundred miles away. She will be interning. It's not as if she was offered the position of head chef, or assistant head chef at a prestigious restaurant. Also, who knows how long this might last. She basically will be on probation. If they don't like her work she could be out of there in a month or two. I think it comes down to her decided whether she wants to sacrifice time with her daughter, and move far away, or find something in the area and keep the same arrangement.