let me clarify, yes my attny started the paperwork for a default hearing. i just wanted opinions here if i was on the right track. the petition included everything: spliting of assests and debts, custody, visitation, child support, medical coverage, life insurance, child care, and even changing my last name back to my maiden name. it is pretty cut and dry we don't own anything. i just wanted to make myself and my attny was not jumping the gun.