My stbx moved out a week after our aniversay, july 28th. he now has a girlfriend who is 2-3 months pregnent. I was just getting over him; looking forward to the future, when all of this fell into my lap. now I want him because he is with her? I don't know. I don't understand these feelings. He was obviously involved with this person before he left. I am so hurt and devistated. Am I having these feelings because I just don't want him with her. She is having the baby I begged him for.