How do I get my husband to talk to me about wha is going on? We have two kids, 5 and 6 months. I love him but he has never been a talker. A few weeks ago i found a womans phone number on his bill and asked him about it. he said they are just friends. i told him that it made me uncomfortable and I really did not want him talking to her unless I got to know her too. that did not happen. then I found out that he went to lunch with her(they work together) I was hurt and angry. I told him that it was our marriage or his friendship with this woman. He left. I am so sad and angry and feel like he doesnt care about me at all. his family says otherwise. should I give up and get over it? he wont even tell me what the hell is going on. he wont talk to me at all. I miss him. is there a way to fix this?