Another question regarding visitations..
her father has yet to have her on his own for more than an hour (by his choice). Why the heck would a court give him overnight visitations when before his parents became involved he would refer all and every part of parenting to me?

What exactly are grandparent's rights in GA? As I understood it, there are very few other than with regards to deceased parents or unfit parents.

As far as visitation on my terms, yes it is in my home and I try to stay out of the way as much as possible. However, I will not let my daughter cry unduly if she's hungry and wants to nurse or is uncomfortable ie: she does not know them well at all.

As far as schedule, I have allowed both him and his parents full access to her and also allowed them both to set the dates etc. I suggest hours such as 10a-6 but typically his parents leave when she goes down for her afternoon nap.

I have accepted that I will not have complete control over visitations. However, I will also not have my daughter uncomfortable or upset because she is with a pack of strangers even if they are family.

I truely hope you're joking that I could be held responsable for his loans? How the hell could any court hold me responsable for loans for his medschoool when I will not reap any of the rewards?? (IE: all of our retirement and business plans are completely gone!)

I want to very clearly state that I am NOT after him for his ample cashflow. I truely wish I were at the point where I never had to accept one red cent from him. However, I'm not. And I won't be for sometime.

One last question..
is there any way that something can be done about setting up a college fund for our daughter in our divorce by the courts? Or is that only something that would be done by both parties agreeing to it? (His parents 6 years of college and I would like to see him pay at least half.)