I need some help, I think my husband is gay, and on newyears eve 2007 he asked for a divorce claiming he just wanted to be with his friends. He left on 01/20/2008 and moved in with a man. he has never said he was gay, but I have a lot of back up. To date he has not files or at least i don't think so. No letter from a lawyer, or papers from the court, I think he waiting for the 6mons, but he has not told me what grounds, He wants to use the same lawyer, we each have our own cc and money and share a house. The kids are all over the age of 18 and we make about the same money. I am not sure what is going on. I want him to come clean, but I need to know about the 6 mond. Since he has not gone to a lawyer or sent me papers does the 6mons start now? I will not sign the 2 year waiver until I know for sure why I am getting divorced. Any help in this?