I REALLY want the citation for this one.

It's VERY on target, and I want to see what else this person has written. There are some things about it that are a little disjointed so I want to check & see if you've cut out some parts of the cited text that might help me reference some things.

Of the things listed, my husband experienced all but maybe 2 during his own marriage, and those two, she pulled out ALL the stops during the divorce.

And I've got another friend who is going through it right now. Actually, a friend of a friend. My friend knows I am interested in this stuff so she asked me about her husband's friend's situation and from talking ot her about what his stbx is doing and has done, it's uncanny how much it mirrors what happened to my husband when he was going through his own divorce, and what this article described.

If we knew the origin of this study we might be able to figure out if it can be used to help stop the stupid stuff that is resulting from this abuse.

Please, please, please... the cite &/or author?