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What makes you think TractorMom wanted any of his assets?
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Why would she be interested in passing judgement on him or condemning him for his present "sponging" from his parents, if he is only her ex? Obviously the OP was the product of bitterness resulting from a divorce in which she got nothing, because he legally HAD nothing!

I heartily congratulate the man and his parents for excellent financial planning!