gigi - Their son (my stepson) knows that he has "a lot of houses with his mom" so he has stated. He also doesn't have a set schedule of visitation with my husband, it is set in the original papers for EOWE but he has never only been here EOWE, its either been more of less or changes constantly. He doesn't know when he'll see his dad or when he'll see his mom when he's at his dads house and it breaks my heart for him. There are other little details but the moving and health concerns are what we're looking at. Thanks!!