Gigi,

First of all, I don't think it's wise to advise my husband to make accusations against me to make himself look better. I have openly admitted to my attorney that I am pregnant with another man's child. I have done nothing wrong and I have nothing to hide.

He had an affair and moved in with his girlfriend the MOMENT he moved out. For all you or I know, SHE could be pregnant too. At least I waited a year before becoming involved.

I fail to see how he comes out "golden" simply because I'm in a stable, committed relationship long after a separation and happened to become pregnant.

Additionally, it's unwise to assume that *I* am "untrustworthy" just because some nutjob came to this board and told you so.

Further, if he requests a DNA test, I will fight it to the death, because there is NO way anyone but my fiance is this child's father, and my STBX will only get one if it is REQUIRED in order for my unborn child to be free of him.

Thank you.

"Abused's" wife