You're an idiot jbar. Period.

This poster may work 80 hours per week for all you know.

Also, as was the case in my divorce, my name was not on some credit cards, but they were used to purchase items during the marriage, so I was responsible for half. In what way is that unfair to you jbar? That would be different, right? It's not.

This poster asked about a mortgage and credit cards, usually debts, not a title or deed.