[quote]One of the early steps in settling a divorce is financial disclosure. You certainly want to disclosure your numbers to your attorney and you're required to make a certain amount of it visible to hers. [/quote]

well i'll show everyone everything. It will clearly show i have little money to give her but from all i hear it doesnt matter what i have to give, it's just what she is entitled to.

thats why i wanted to start working at home on her and telling her this is what you can have with no fighting, no atty fees except him looking over the documents. I am not sure she is even aware that atty must do what she wants, i think she will be swayed by family and atty etc and even if she wants to do nice by me (unlikely of course), she wont be able to