Wow, jbar, you can hijack any thread with your distorted thinking...

But Malone, I think this is a good question. I think it has less to do with age or generation than just simply outlook and upbringing. My Ex is 56, 17 yrs older than me...don't ask! But he is closed off about everything...including sex. We talked about it once every year or so when I brought it up and complained that he never wanted it...how that made me feel, etc. He avoided it and discussion of it like the plague. That was from the beginning...long story.

Now, I am dating my BF who is 47. He is very open and honest about everything sexual and we talk openly before during and after. Wow! What a difference that makes. But again, he is open and honest about everything and we talk all the time about big things, littlethings, our communication in all regards is top notch.