thank you solorider and jerseygirl.

solorider, i am very worried about how he will react. he has a very short fuse and gets out of control, emotionally and verbally.

jerseygirl, i appreciate the words. i believe it would be in the best interest to get them out during the divorce. i wish i had family here to be a support system.

one thing for sure, i have been documenting everything regarding his treatment of the boys since 02 with the 1st born and 05 with my youngest.i never thought in a million years i would ever have to do something like that.