I was just informed by my husband on Friday that he isn't happy in our marriage and that he thinks we should divorce. I talked until I was blue in the face to get him to reconsider. I finally pretty much gave up. He is looking at it as we are better off as friends that married. He have talked about visition for the kids (almost 3 and almost 6 months). Our main goal is the well being of our children. My family is not happy. They are not happy with the way we are handling the divorce. I have no idea when papers will be filed. He said he is going to pay for all of it. He is a wonderful father to the kids. I have no doubt that he will not support them. It is a very friendly separation/divorce. I guess I am looking for support from third party impartial people. My family I don't think can do that. My sister is already unhappy about somethings I told her on how we are going to handle the separation. They pretty much want me to put the screws to him. I'm not like that and will not do it. Whatever support anyone can give me will be great. I am trying to be strong, but it is hard.