I'm going through a tough time and need some advice. My husband and I have decided to file for divorce. I am also in counseling for sexual abuse that occurred during childhood. Because this issue is so sensitive and brings up many disturbing memories, we decided to abstain from sex until I felt ready. Well, during counseling is when we came to the conclusion that this marriage is unrepairable. Here is my problem. My husband has asked to resume marital relations until the divorce is final. Setting aside the fact that I CAN'T do that, how do the courts see sex during marriage? Does it affect property, or delay the divorce? Any help would be appreciated.

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