If you are close to a military installation go to the Judge Advocate Office and they will explain everything to you. Otherwise, get online and get the phone number to the one closest to you. I am assuming he is enlisted. Try to get the phone number and name of his First Sergeant or Company Commander and talk to them and tell them what is happening. It makes a difference if your husband is in Basic training or at a permanent station. Confused was correct, you are authorized part of the Bachelor Housing Allowance (BHA) if you are not living together. I am a Retired Officer and Personnel was my specialty.