Hello, I have been married for 7 months now but have been waiting for 6 months so that I can file for divorce. I PCS'd to california in February so I had to wait until now to file for divorce. I haven't filed yet but i have spoken to base legal.
Anyway, let me go back in time. The only reason I married this girl is because she got pregnant during Thanksgiving. I believe that she stopped taking birth control because she knew that I was PCSing to California and it was a pathetic attempt to stay with me. I had told her that I would move first and then send for her later (But my plan was to just move on with my life). We ended up losing the baby so I have no attachment to her whatsoever.
I pretty much have no feelings for her anymore and I am so unhappy having her around. She doesn't work or do anything except go to school.
The problem is that when I say that it is over and that I want a divorce she gets all suicidal and crazy. I don't know how to take care of this situation and I am trying to seek advice from anyone.
I thought that she could move back to her hometown but she has nothing there. She has nothing here in California either but she says that she has nothing.
I would like to divorce her and help her finish school and move on with her life but for her her life is with me or nothing. I have never been stuck in a situation like this before but I need to move on with my life! Thanks in advance for any help.