Let me get it straight. You guys are still married and you want to file divorce, right? Is he still active duty? If he is go on line to armyone.com or call 1-800-342-9647. They can help you. Give them a call they have a lot services free of charge that you can benefir from. You can always go to any millitary base and talk to their legal office and ask for legal advice as well. In the mean time, keep saving those emails and document any communicataion you guys might have. They might come in handy. It's better to be safe than sorry. ~Good Luck.