unfortunately there are a lot of men and women in the military and out that will cheat...I am sure it is hard to be away from your loved one but one should be able to go without the sex and be faithful to the marriage...sex is momentary...love is not....so you give into the urge for sex and you throw away the marriage...I just don't get it...and for him to tell you he is waiting to come home to you and your kids so he can fly how with her...put an adultery charge on his ass...serves him right...