My wife says I have to pay her out of every check I get. SHe has told me the ammount and I have been paying it. I am just wondering if anyone knows how they decide on the ammount, or if they even make you pay if you are not legally seperated. I am not stupid, I have called Jag and I am on a waiting list for a return call. I figured I would try this while I wait. Thanks! Oh I am a E5 in the Navy if this helps. Thanks!