we lived in VA together for 20 years. I moved to Florida and changed my residency to that state right before I got this job in Germany. VA says since I haven't lived there in 6 months (4 years really) and I gave up my residency there, I can't get a divorce there. FL says since I didn't physically live there for 6 months, I can't get a divorce there. That's my problem. I don't have residency. Who at the embassy would I ask for help?
Thanks for your response.