Don't give up. Find a good family lawyer that understands the military or at least has some knowledge. I am not sure of the rules where you live for support but I would think you should get more. I know you probably deserve more. Now that you have dealt with the JAG it is now time for a good attorney. I know its hard to get around but try not to settle for an attorney that you don't feel comfortable with. Any support would probably not include seperation pay but the BAH should be included in the calculation for support.