I claimed 90% custody of my daughter who is 14 when I had our divorce papers prepared...my stbx is saying that if he doesn't have at least 50% then he can't draw any bah. He is pissed because he says then he can't live off base. What do I stand to gain by giving him more custody? He is in Korea so I guess it really doesn't matter what is on paper.

What is going to be best for my kid?