my husband is in the military and time after time he hurting me emotionally by beeing with me and always searching for other girls..and also still have something going with his ex girlfriend back home.time after time i caught him talking on the phone with girls for hours..and emailing calling others honey and baby ect.. and he lies to me so many times.and lately he did it again..i cant take it anymore..what should i do? i want a divorce but ive been a house wife..i havent work since i got pregnantand stay home taking care of the baby since then. we only been married for about 3 years. can i get spouse support?or custody and child support?iam so afraid that i cant have custody of my baby..there for i keep hanging on.i dont know where to start or what to do..please help me.