WOW at least I know I am not in the same boat!! I am married to a marine, only 4 years. He up and decided that he wanted a divorce at the beginning of this year. I let him do all the filing...let him spare the cost. BUT before he did that he filed a DVI against ME!! The judge about laughed him out of court for that one...my issue is that being a military wife..I was not working taking care of four children (two step kids and two of my own) he is living in the house with his two children and me and mine are at the mercy of friends and neighbors. He filed the income tax return claiming all four children and me....has received all the money and is due to receive the monies from the rebates coming out. Leaving me with nothing. Jobs are scarce. I have been searching for months now. I have one interview coming up. The sucky thing is that I signed a prenup...so i dont know if I will be getting anything from him since we had no children common to this marriage. BUT I was the person who dealt with all the CRAP during his two deployments to Iraq and not to mention that he had cheated and spread some unmentionable things to me.....I AM SOOOO HOPING THAT THE JUDGE AWARDS ME EVERYTHING HE HAS RIGHT NOW. But I am not getting my hopes up. He has his command so snowballed right now it is not even funny! I hope they see him for who he really is!!!!!!!

BUT I hate to say dont get your hopes up because if there is no common children they are not required unless by court order to give you any monies.....that is what I am dealing with right now!!! BUT right your congressman they do not like congressional investigations.....In fact they HATE it....Just do not put down the military talk directly about the military man that are married to.

Keep me posted on what you find out and I will fill you in when I hear anything on this end/....