toofargone,
30 years of marriage...At age 60, after at least 20 years of satisfactory service in the National Guard, she may begin collecting retirement pay, then you should be entitled to 18 years worth of your marriage, (not sure, but could be between 30-40%, you should research this). Supporting a military spouse is far from easy, sounds like you were a husband who gave 100 percent throughout the marriage therefore you deserve a portion of the military pension! Good luck.