I have read that DFAS does not make it easy on spouses trying to collect. My court order states that my ex has to contact me with in 30 days of being retired, but what if he doesn't? They can't do anything to him for not telling me. I was told to let DFAS know my new address when I move like that will matter. I have heard some horror stories with DFAS my order does not state anything with percentages so I don't have that. Its is very complicated can you recommend any website about this? Something with more info on it.?

Thank you for helping me