I have so many issues to deal with. Sent my lawyer 3 emails so far this weekend. One of the biggest issues is my health care insurance. I'm about one year away from retirement and now looks like I'll be working for awhile. Yes, married for 38 years. Found out two months ago that he is having an affair. Thought that we would be able to work it out but it continued. He packed up and moved out less than a month ago. He has his military retirement and I'll have my job as my source of income. I'm still at the point of shock and disbelief that this has happened to me. Everything is still up in the air. But my biggest worry is getting affordable heath insurance with my health issues.