I am an AD AF father. High risk job, high deployment tempo. In fact recently tasked to deploy. I am trying to get out of the deployment because I am thinking of starting a custody battle for the kids. Is there no way that a AD military can get full physical and legal custody. I am trying to prove that their mother is unfit due to drug use. Any help would be great because she is telling me no matter what i do i can not be primary caregiver for the children and get sole custody. I know of the family care plan in the military-- What does that constitute, I know many AD people that have sole custody of their children I just need to know how they did it... Thanks