Yea, same here. But the twist is it was my wife that went to Iraq. Married for 30 years this June and she has been in the Gaurd for 18 years. As far as I can tell I'm not intitled to anything. I took care of the household and 3 kids, supported her in her many deployments and training and as far as the Army is concerned I can just take a hike! No parades, metals or kiss my ass for the divorced spouse. LOL