My aunt & uncle were both military. When they met, he was a widower with several children an she was a nurse. They married and were together through retirement. He was a wonderful man and never considered cheating or acting like a jerk with regard to her. He treated his wife like a princess, and so did all his boys. She was and is their mother, and their children's grandmother.

They both believed the military demanded that they act with honor, and they continued that into their personal lives.

I guess some may feel the need to let loose in their personal lives, others are like my aunt & uncle. Neither my aunt nor my uncle were saints, but if my marriage and the last half of my life is anywhere near as wonderful as thiers was, I'll know I've lived a happy life!

Gigi