I know tha I was just going through a divorce process just a few months a go before I cancelled it because he told me he would change.
I also had credit card debt because he controlled the money as well and if he got mad at me or thought I had spent too much, he just would not give me money. Actually, when he found out about the credit card, he demanded that I cancel it and then he would pay it off. He didn't pay it and he ruined my credit, he said that he did it to teach me a lesson about the evils of credit, like I didn't know already.
Anyway, my point is that when we had our temporary hearing, the judge ordered my husband to pay off the credit card bill with our family funds. So the judge was very well aware of the fact that he had control of all of the money. He was also ordered to pay 1000.00 dollars towards my education immediatley so I could get started at least. I had it so good, I don't know what I was thinking giving him another chance. I swear that when I refile this time, there will be no other chances, period.