Yes, they are in counceling, however, he shows up and they cant say what they want to about him because he sits there and they are afraid that if they say something bad about their dad, he wouldnt pick them up anymore. So they dont get much out of it. He insists on being there because we have joint legal custody. I dont think it is fair to the kids. All this man wants to do is hurt me and he doesnt realize he is hurting the kids by his actions. I didnt know if there is something I could do because of it legally. free consult from lawyers are hard to come by..lol.....